Certified Gottman Couples Therapist & Trauma Therapist for Couples

I am a trauma-certified, licensed couples therapist with over 10 years of experience supporting couples in rebuilding and strengthening their relationships.

Our romantic partner is often our anchor. The person we trust and turn to in the most difficult moments. When that relationship experiences a rupture – such as infidelity, decreased intimacy, change in shared life vision, illness, and others – most people experience that rupture as a trauma. It shakes the core of what we’ve known to be true.

That’s why I use a trauma-informed approach when I work with couples. I draw from evidence-based methods for couple’s therapy, including the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. I also integrate relevant trauma-based interventions, including EMDR, into my couple’s work. We offer a range of couple therapy options in San Francisco, including: Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Couple Focused EMDR, and more.

Our Specialties

Dr. Cammy’s Specialties

I specialize in supporting couples in healing from…

Sexual Dissatisfaction
High Conflict
Unhelpful Communication
Financial Trauma
Stress Management
Disagreement on Life Goals
Infertility
Parenting
Grief and Loss

And trauma specific couple goals, such as:

Betrayal Trauma
Financial Abuse
Rebuilding after Addiction
Sexual Discomfort and Pain
Grieving a Sudden Death
Acute and Chronic Illness
Infertility
Chronic Infidelity
Couple Goals

Couples Therapy Services

Intensives
My Services

Intensives

I offer couples therapy intensives who want to supercharge their healing journey. Sometimes this is due to an urgent situation requiring immediate, in-depth support. Other times couples’ learning styles are more conducive to a longer and more immersive experience. Couples spend 10 hours with the therapist over the course of two days.

My Services

Weekly Therapy

I work with couples in marriages or any type of relationship, dyad or polyamorous, that is significant for you. Couples present with a wide variety of issues, including pre-marital counseling, conflict management, communication concerns, recovery after infidelity, co-parenting, sexual issues, and more.

Couples Therapy

What you’ll get
from couples therapy

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Identify the issues
Identify specific relationship issues to work on with the support of an unbiased professional.
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Rediscover strengths
Develop a solutions-oriented approach to rediscover your relationship’s strengths.
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Dysfunctional dynamics
Gain insight into patterns that cause relationship distress and dysfunctional dynamics.
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Empathy and resolution
Practice conflict-resolution strategies for improved empathy, problem-solving, and communication.
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Restore trust
Learn communication strategies to increase vulnerability and restore trust.
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Ongoing support
Ongoing dedicated support through live video sessions and tailored support.
Here’s what our clients are saying...
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D.R
New York
When we found Dr. Cammy, my boyfriend and I could not have a conversation without fighting. We had both cheated on each other, which caused a lot of built up resentments. Dr. Cammy had this special way of melting away our anger so we could actually communicate. She also did check-ins between sessions to make sure we were on track with our goals
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M.D
California
My girlfriend and I were not happy with our sex life, but didn’t know where to turn for help. Dr. Cammy helped us build-up our sex life. She also worked with both me and my girlfriend individually on childhood issues that made sex difficult. Dr. Cammy really listened to us and I could tell she cared about our relationship
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O.W
New York
Dr. Cammy helped my wife and I recover after I had an affair. I thought I had ruined our marriage, but Dr. Cammy brought us to an even healthier place in our relationship.
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S.P
California
We had tried four couples therapists before meeting Dr. Cammy. It seemed like other therapists just watched us while we argued, which only made things worse. Dr. Cammy took control of the process by structuring sessions and teaching us exactly what we needed to do to fix our communication issues. It was a relief to finally meet a therapist who knew what they were doing...
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E.N
California
Rebuilding trust after a huge betrayal felt impossible. Dr. Cammy kept the faith when we were both so hopeless. Dr. Cammy is the most genuine person you will ever meet. She went out of her way for us at every turn. We are in a completely different place in our marriage now.
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C.S
California
When my wife and I met Dr. Cammy, we were at rock bottom and both of us had secured divorce lawyers. We decided to do one last ditch effort with therapy. By the end of the intake, Dr. Cammy figured out our main issues and had a plan to fix our marriage. We met with her for six months and it is like we are in a new relationship. It was so clear Dr. Cammy cared about us. She would not rest till we were in a better place.
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Frequently Asked Questions

Here are some of the most commonly asked questions we hear. If your questions aren’t answered, please contact us.

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Whether you are struggling with anxiety, stress, depression, relationships or fulfillment, Dr. Cammy can help.